The NB cleats were worn maybe a dozen times before I broke my ankle. Zero problems. Size 8 mens.
$50 shipped obo
The UA turfs were worn for 3 games maybe. No issues with these either. Size 8.5 mens.
$40 shipped obo
If you have a sporting goods store bear by that would be a good place to try different gloves out (if you're even able to). You can then report back here with what fit well etc. I too have small hands (M or even S batting gloves) and all I use now is Mizuno. Granted I probably went to the...