IMO, it's a silly debate. If the quality of the patch is satisfactory and the restitching is of good quality and work, it's the same in my book. I've seen the real patches done with crappy stitch jobs and I've seen fake patches with outstanding work. I'd rather have the latter.
My reasoning is this: none of these people earned the award (so the swap in itself is fake). So if a "fake" patch was crafted well and within the same quality as the "authentic" patches, then I see no issue (the quality of the swap work has much much more value in my eyes). Anyone that argues with that either has a complex that they feel the need of the exclusivity or they never handled a SLCS with original Bob patches (or both).
Aftermarket is still aftermarket.