So.... I'm an outfielder only. Once in a great while I'll pitch or play first base. If I want a ball to hit my glove and sink in like its a big fat soft couch, have my fingers just wrap that leather around that ball and honestly kinda collapse on the ball, then use the Aso method? I watched the Aso video the other day... before I found this thread but haven't tried it yet. My gf has been playing ball for a few years, competively, accelerated leagues and all that and swears by foam shaving cream. I was kinda skeptical about the shaving cream as well. I think I'll do it the way listed above, with maybe some beating the hell out of it ala Aso. My Nike Diamond Ready is the nicest glove I've ever owned and it sounds like a cheap POS compared to what you guys have. It only cost me $60 but was the most money I'd ever spent on a glove.
May just need to be conditioned and tightened I guess. Its starting to dry on some of the seams and it doesn't "flop" closed like I imagine i want it to. I used baby oil on it once and that softened it for a minute but like others said, it made it heavy too. I will admit, I haven't treated it well, keeping it in a batpack without a ball in it other than occasionally, in the heat of summer between games and its probably sitting in that same pack since my last tournament in St. George. Wish I lived in Vegas, then I'd play year round.