The players ability to actually make the catch is irrelevant.
Because?
It seems like your judgement should change according to the players.
If a girl catcher on a low level coed team stepped up to attempt a catch on a high fly, 10' in front of the plate, it would be extraordinary if she somehow managed to catch it. At that level, she's probably not going to turn a DP. She will be lucky to make one out.
A more skilled catcher of either gender playing at an upper level would be much more likely to take advantage of the situation if the IFR was not called. They have a clear view of the runners in front of them and the ball will likely spin right back to their glove after hitting the ground.
I would assume that he seemingly routine infield flys hit
between are probably the toughest ones to call. Sometimes the players assume someone else will make the play and it ends up as a last second 3 way scramble.