There is absolutely nothing wrong with setting high goals. With that being said, the scholarships are few and far between in softball for non-pitcher/catcher position players, so the above advice about keeping grades as high as possible is very accurate. We spent tons of money on some very good travel teams as my DD was a teenager from 12-u through 18-u, and in the end her grades got her a huge scholarship in to the school she WANTED to go to and she then made the softball team on her own. Don't get me wrong, I would not trade the experiences we lived, but all the money I spent on travel ball and camps and showcases, I easily would have covered a year or 2 of college!
No matter what, good luck with the rest of her highschool career! Please take this advice as a parent also...... Sit back and enjoy it. It seemed like forever for my DD to get to the highschool team, and then when it finally got here, those 4 years absolutely FLEW by. Don't miss it by pushing her too hard or arguing over what she should or should not have done in each game. These last years of being able to watch her play are far too precious to waste! Just be her biggest fan!