Hate to say it, but I'd feel like the world's biggest tool if I strode to the plate with a DC41 and whizzed one by a pitcher. I could do that every AB of every game if I so chose. I don't care how good a fielder the guy is, how well he's armored up, or how much I dislike him. I don't want to put a ball anywhere NEAR a pitcher with a bat that could leave him dead on the mound. Getting on base is not such a chore that I'm willing to put a man's life at risk to do so.
Softball is a game. A GAME. I find no justification for hitting balls anywhere near the pitcher. Plus, guys who continually shoot middle are well known and eventually become reviled among the softball community. After a while who the hell wants to pitch to a guy who continually pisses the ball up the middle with hot bats?
I realize the very great majority of guys who hit middle aren't trying to hit the pitcher, but does that make you feel any better on those occasions when you "miss" one and it leaves a guy writhing on the ground in pain?
That was exactly the point I was trying to make. I'm not talking about rec players with zero bat control who occasionally buzz the tower. I'm talking about guys who are skilled hitters, yet who still go up to the plate looking to blast middle more often than not. Yes its a viable hole and yes you may reach base, but there is zero chivalry in it. In my earlier years I hit a few pitchers (before I had any conception of bat control). Now that I can steer the ball around decently (and with extreme power), I'll do anything I can to avoid hitting a ball even in the vicinity of the pitcher. If that costs me a hit or two every now and then I can live with it. Better that than being known as a middle shooter who has a long list of hurt pitchers on their resume.
I think we should take a vote for who sounds like the biggest tool. Hahaha.
Just so we're clear... When I play league or lower level teams, I stay out of the middle. Getting hit in the face by a softball hurts. :Last thing I want to do is cause someone else pain. Now, if I'm playing in a tournament setting and my goal is to get the next guy up, if those are the holes given to me, I'll take em. I don't play the highest level of ball by any means, but the teams that do play higher don't say a damn word if a ball goes near them. It's the rec and lower teams that ***** about it.
On a side note, I coach baseball to kids 10-13yrs old. I'll say the same thing to you as I did to them after about 2 practices.... To give you some context, I noticed the habit of kids backing out of the box on pitches inside. Terrible habit right? Why would they do that? Easy right? They're afraid of getting beaned. So, back to what I told them... "If you're afraid of getting hurt, don't play sports." Injuries happen. It's part of the game we choose to play. If you have a problem with balls getting hit at or near your pitcher, I suggest you take up chess or band. Hell, with your "extreme power" you'd be a badass on the drums.